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That post that I saw earlier that was critical of someone else’s post talking about gay mens’ fitness journeys being for the sake of having access to social privelage and sexual access to fit men, like, the OP was right and idc what bullshit you can come up with about gay men being stereotyped as shallow and sex obsessed like boohoo cry me a river because it’s TRUE. Gay men ARE shallow and sex obsessed and fit gay men exclude men they deem unnattractive from their social and sexual circles and we all know it. It’s not internalized homophobia to have a problem with the fact that so many gay men feel the need to reach these absurd fitness standards for the social and sexual privelage. The body dysmorphia you’re talking about is literally CAUSED by the sex-obsessed culture of gay men like how could you deny that??